Confessions of a libra

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06.06.25

I can feel certain men of the zodiac itching for their flowers. So here is my sexual compatibility with different men of the zodiac.

🐏 Aries Men

My Aries Kings. Manly. Cheeky. Self-focused. I’ve always had such promising flirtationships with Aries men but never has one taken the challenge head on. I’ve often found them to be wrapped up in something or other and my Leo Venus needs complete attention. While I think you have enjoyed my attention, I’m not sure your ego has been ready for me. Also, I love passion as much as the next gal, but can you also slow down? Will it be everyday quickie with you? These are the important questions I have for my potential future Aries man.

Notable experience. I went out on a date with this Aries man who was in IT I believe. He was doing so well for himself, bless him. However, this was my first catfish. I don’t want to be funny (I can hear my Aries bestie cackling right now), he had unusual proportions. His body was almost comically small for his head. It’s not his fault obviously, but on his profile his photos minimised that fact by how he took them. So that was jarring. But I’m not fickle.

The date was actually lovely but he was also super nervous, in a way that made it hard for me to relax. The chemistry wasn’t as strong as I thought from the messages alone and I texted my best friend to drive into the city and rescue me. At the end of the date I went in for a hug, he tried to kiss me, and I swerved. He was genuinely a lovely guy, if I was younger and still dating people because their just nice, we would have continued dating. I hope he finds someone who makes him feel good one day. I hope he stops catfishing.

🐂 Taurean Men

My Taurean Kings. The raw masculinity in your bodies, delicious. The way you stalk about the place like a bull in a china shop. I’ve always liked Taurean men’s flirting but found them to be more committed to the dream of dating than the actual pursuit. I think Taurean men also like to be chased, per that feminine sun sign. I have no will to chase a man. You either want me or you don’t. Big talks about doing activities (which I adore) but up until now 0 follow-through. I think Taurean men should keep to their solo camping, and not invite anyone until they’ve worked through their problems.

I have spoken to a few Taurean men online and they all promise to take me out into the wilderness. There is one notable experience with a Taurus man. Arborist. Large truck. Camping enthusiast. Big man, bull tattoo across the top of his back – with the softest brown eyes. He was tender in how he talked, how he kissed and how he held me. I think he got scared by how genuine I was so he ran away. Then he came back. Then he ran away again. He was 10 years older than me.

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🎭Gemini Men

My Geminian Kings. I have always loved the mental pace and capacity of you Mercurial men. I could feast on your minds alone, never needing your touch. And yet your touch is your secret weapon. I am surprised I haven’t slept with more Gemini men, but I’m not surprised I haven’t been in a relationship with more Gemini men. Your energy for me is one for creative spark and intellectual alignment. I’m yet to find a Gemini who is honest, loyal and with integrity to be in my orbit long-term. My experience with the one Gemini is so bad, you don’t even want me to get into it.

🦀Cancer Men

My Cancerian Kings. I have always loved the archetype of an evolved Cancer man, but have been unfortunate to have met unhealed ones. The difference is night and day. I love how soft your energy is, and how it speaks before you do. Your humble energy. Your ambitious energy. Your care and devotion. The Cancers I have had chemistry with it was a deep smoulder. Unlike Scorpio energy that engulfs you, Cancer men sneak up on you, lulling you into safety and sensual awareness. There’s a well of pleasure and emotion hiding beneath cool gentlemanly exterior. I daydream of experiencing the kind of protectiveness that only a Cancer man can bring.

Notable experience. I once had a flirtationship in my mid-twenties with a Cancer known Australian rapper. I nearly didn’t swipe right on him because I’m not into White men who are deep into rap culture like that but something made me do it. When we spoke I was my normal sensual intellectual self. I was pleasantly surprised at how he met me there. He was a super thoughtful person and we discussed some existential things. I loved his calm confidence, his masculine presentation. I felt in his energy a cool dom energy, possibly soft dom for the right woman. There was a danger aspect too because he presented as the kind of person women suspect will ruin their lives. So it remained a fantasy, but I won’t forget how we connected.

🦁 Leo Men

My Leonine Kings. I know you most of all are itching to be spoken about and have your ego stroked. The jokes on you, I already have a Leo man post up. It’s called “MiRage”. I can’t promise any more in the future. Unfortunately for me, my love for Leo burns hot and heavy too quickly. This has proven time and time again to not be sustainable. There’s not enough give and take. I find Leo men to be irresistible in their charm, wit, masculinity, storytelling and even their arrogance. I stand for everything that Leo represents, but when evolved. I am yet to experience an evolved Leo. Your ego is rivalled only by Scorpio and Aquarius. Your ego and selfishness has bruised my Leo Venus/Mars. I refuse to engage for my nervous system.

Noteable experience. Dating a Leo man in his 40’s. Ex-DJ. American, grew up in hippie-culture. This one I accidentally manifested him earlier in my 20’s when I said I wanted to be a bad boy. He was too grown for it but he was in retrospect, as gangster as you can be in the true sense of the word. A neurodivergent one. It was quite the trip. Sex was unbelievable. Not worth the trauma.

🧠 Virgo Men

My Virgoan Kings. You are the archetype of man I want in my mind, but I struggle to see it happening in real life. Articulate, fashionable, intellectual and a little neurotic. None of those are bad to me on their own. I’ve liked a Virgo man but I realise in retrospect, I was enjoy his curation. He knew he was a piece of shit, and he was trying to tell me in other ways. There’s a tortured quality to you that appeals to my inner saviour complex. I also feel that you – as feminine sun signs – want a level of chasing, that I am not willing to do.

Notable Virgo experience. This gorgeous Asian guy approached me at the bus stop I used to go to University (I dropped out, don’t ask). He told me I was the most beautiful girl and I was immediately attentive. We exchanged numbers and spoke over the next week. He was so typical Virgo. Told me how he could not enter his bed without having a shower, and his other sanitising rituals. Anyway, flirting is going well, then he just vanished. If that is not typical…I don’t know what is.

⚖️ Libra Men

My Libran Kings. While you are notorious for your laziness, I think Libran men make excellent partners when they are evolved and in love. You are my most trusted men in the zodiac for partnership. Libra men handle their duality of masculinity and femininity in a way that scratches an itch in my brain. You guys just are. You often don’t succumb to games of proving your masculinity. You skirt by with your charm, your good looks and your wit. You are perfect to take to occasions, to go on dates with, to meet the family. I have never found a libra man lacking in romanticism or sexual expression. Just dial down the people pleasing and have backbone about your values. Don’t abandon your friends when you make a new girlfriend.

🦂Scorpio Men

My Scorpionic Kings. You are dangerously delicious with your mystery, your intellect and your whirling emotions blazing through your eyes. Your pacing, your attentiveness, your energetic volleying is impeccable. If you want a real gentleman, to me that is Scorpio. Not the gentleman that society projects with his perfection but the one he truly is – raw and jagged. I also like the balance of masculinity and femininity in Scorpio men, they wear it well. Your control issues and inability to trust after a bad experience shuts you off to healing through other people. You can’t let go while also trying to maintain control. That’s just insane.

🏹Sagittarius Men

My Sagittarian Kings. This one is a nostalgic one for me. In the early days of me learning about astrology (I’m talking teen years), I was obsessed with the archetype of Sagittarius first. I envisioned myself with a man like that and it sounded perfectly expansive – just my speed. In real life, I have similar feelings to Virgo or Gemini. I feel that our chemistry has been better suited intellectually than physically. While I love your passion, I am not always keen for the sanctimonious, selfish behaviour.

🐐Capricorn Men

My Capricornian Kings. I have always loved the archetype of the Capricorn man. That’s so many things I value in a person. Sturdiness, composure, love for tradition and legacy, ambition and creativity. I am attracted to Capricorn men’s masculine energy. It is a turn on. However, I think Capricorn men have run from me in the past. Is it my perceptiveness? Not sure. I have an earth moon, so I think earth sign men feel grounded in my presence. I have often drawn in Capricorn men with my feminine expression.

Notable experience: I went on a date with a Capricorn man. Ex-army. We met up and chilled at the park next to the Parliament Building. Our chemistry was electric, I felt more feminine around him. He complimented me a lot on my appearance. Mid-conversation he asked if he could feel my skin because it looked soft. This isn’t as unusual a request as people think. I said yes, he could have come right then I reckon. We had dinner, I read out his birthchart. This is where I think I spooked him. Then he paid. Refused for me to touch the bill, but I offered. It was all super romantic, I loved his restraint. Then we never spoke again.

🧑‍🚀Aquarius Men

My Aquarian Kings. You guys have never been on my radar too much. I love the archetype of an Aquarius man. I love arguing and flirting with Aquarius men. However, I see you guys as bachelors for the most part. I don’t want to disrupt what you’re doing over there, and you likely feel the same. Love the open-mindedness, the community minded-ness but the control issues are where we butt heads. I have Aquarian energy too, so we will just lock horns. Many Aquarian men I meet have a lean physique, and I’m down with that. No notable experiences to report.

🐟🐠Pisces Men

My Piscean Kings. Oh, I love the idea of an evolved Pisces man. Many of you are attractive to look at firstly. Big hearts, emotionally fluent and I’ve noticed a penchance for tattoos. Many of you have a whole tortured artist thing going on with your eyes. It tugs at the heart strings. I love your flirting and your romanticism. Your ability to make a woman feel beautiful with your attentions. Your softness. Not a huge fan of the emotional manipulation and the addictive tendencies.

Notable incidents. One Pisces man, my gut said not to talk to him but I did anyway. I was roughly 23 and he was about 10 years older. He was the kind of beautiful man that should have done modelling. Those are the kinds of men I avoid like the plague, but anyway. We start talking and he tells me he doesn’t drive and he’s lost custody of his 10 year old. I just… Anyway Pisces number 2! It was a short fling, he was Zimbabwean. Charm galore, handsome as well, emotionally unstable and secret alcoholic. Colourist too, he compared my skin tone with his housemates as though to pit us against each other. I did not appreciate that 0/10 would not recommend.