Confessions of a libra

Approach the altar with offerings | Credit: Here

24.05.25

So you’ve found yourself in the presence of a Goddess. Congratulations. You must be the diamond of the season. This is the part where you pay attention. You cannot afford to only have half your attention in. She’ll smell your weakness and you will be flayed alive. Contrary to popular practice, this Goddess doesn’t go for the best peacock in the room. Nay nay, the energy that draws me in is a quiet confidence. No need to prove yourself, your energy should do it for you.

You must approach with intentionality because I will read your intentions either way – so will any other Goddess. It’s important to note this post is specifically targeted towards men, but feel free to take what you need and leave the rest. Goddesses can be worshipped by anyone.

Direct eye contact is an aphrodisiac. They say eyes are the window to the soul, they would be correct. Even when your mouth lies, your eyes never do. You never need to perform devotion. That love and enthusiasm bleeds through your eyes. Don’t expect devotion where you give none. In most relationships, if you want something model it first.

Respect for my personhood and autonomy is non-negotiable. Some of the most respectful men I meet are overly spatially aware and I love that. Also cautious with physical touch. No one is asking for a prude, but the fact that you let anyone put their hands on you is an ick. Being controlled about who touches your vessel is a virtue. Apart from the lack of boundaries, as a spiritualist it’s a no no.

Respect can also be shown when you ask my opinion. If you want to go somewhere, ask my opinion about it first. You want to sit next to me? Ask my permission. Any plans that involve me I should hear about before they are agreed to. No adding people to my day without my permission. I will not cook for someone you brought over because you told them I would cook. That’s not my problem. If you respect my time, then you show up at the time you stated. When you are running late, it is your responsibility to say something. When plans change they should be communicated. You don’t get to forget. Except as a literal outlier.

Attentiveness is sexier to a woman than men even understand. If I drop something, being attentive and picking it up for me. If I drop a gem in conversation about my likes and dislikes you should be noting it. I expect to occasionally be surprised by thoughtful gifts and surprises pertaining to my interests. As I do for others. Being open to learning and growing is a non-negotiable. Any assumptions you have made about women, leave those at the door. I detest being categorised. You need to learn me as I am, and respond accordingly. I am not something to neatly fold into a drawer of your choosing. Part of my magic lies in my transformation. It is constant and it is fluid.

This Goddess cannot stand to be steeping in a stale relationship. If you are someone who can get comfortable and coast, it will not work with me. I love things to be dynamic. I am not a boring person, so life with me is never boring. I expect the same attentiveness to the energies in the relationship. If there is an imbalance in any sense, I need a co-creator to step in so the burden is not always on me to see things ahead of time. This busts the myth that I want submission over fluidity. I am a Libra after all.

This was your first lesson. An offering perhaps, a glimpse into the frequencies that align with me. A dare even, because now I’m just having fun. This blog is morphing and changing with me. I have become a flare, magnetising old souls. My standards could be illuminating or they could become your compass. Either way, this Goddess sees your potential.